And I can't help it. Moreover, I don't know what to do about it.
I love being tied up with rope. It's one of my two favorite mediums. But being a redhead creates a real problem with this. The fair skin really causes me to turn red and purple really easily and quickly, despite the fact that I have all normal feelings and sensations. Generally, i turn purple before I even start to go numb.
So what's the problem? No matter how many times I tell doms this, they generally untie me earlier than I would like. I can't say i blame them; purple hands and feet generally mean theyre numb or about to die, an outcome that neither of us want. But redheads are the exception to the rule, and it annoys me slightly. And I really can't figure out what to do about it without being off-putting to those who tie me up.
I've tried explaining all of this to them, but it comes down to finding a way to get a dom to break their own confort limits and let ME make it obvious that I need a break.
Any ideas or suggestions? I'm listening.